How you know you are expanding into higher states of consciousness

"Uuughhh! Why is this coming up again? I thought I had healed this already!"

Hands up if you ever heard yourself say that.
Hands up again if you were told to believe that you are never done healing.
Hands up a third time if you sorta kinda feel this is not entirely true but you cannot really explain why...

In contrast to popular new age beliefs, I do not agree with the idea that we are never done healing.

I believe that saying we are never done is a way of protecting our hearts against disappointment in case we thought we were done, and it turns out we are not.

I also believe that saying we are never done gives our ego the perfect excuse to never be satisfied and always look for the next thing to heal.

I believe we can be done.

In fact, I believe that is the whole point of doing the inner work.
Is to come to a moment where you are done.

The 'done' I am speaking of though, might not be the kind of 'done' the way our ego likes it to be.

It's a little... different. 

And if you are not aware of this difference you will miss the sensation of completion.

So how will you know when you are 'done'?

Let's have a look at that in this newsletter, shall we?

Say that it has become clear to you that you desire more openness, more trust, more connection and more intimacy in your relationship and you have set new standards for yourself to act on this and make it happen.  

That means that all the thoughts, beliefs, perspectives and behaviours you - consciously or unconsciously - have about love and relationships that are not supportive of this new commitment, will have to go in order to make room for this expansion.

The conscious ones are relatively easy. 
You are aware of them, and thus you can change them.

The unconscious ones are a little more challenging. 
Because how can you change something you are unaware of? 

Luckily, life has got a trick for that. ☝🏼👌🏼
It will bring you events and experiences that show you your unconscious thoughts, beliefs, perspectives and behaviours. 

🪞 Like a mirror. 🪞

Isn't that neat?

😳 And thus, you run into your ex all of the sudden.

Which is the universe double checking if you are really over him or her and ready for the expansion.

🥵 You will probably be tempted once or twice to lower your standards again.

Which is the universe making sure you have the inner strength to be true to your own word and are ready for the expansion.

😭 It might even happen that you meet a wonderful woman or man who is amazing, but the timing is really off between you. Or the location. Or he or she wants children and you do not.

Which is the universe asking you to have faith in things working out for you as you are readying yourself for the expansion.

All these experiences and events cause for emotions such as anger, sadness, fear, jealousy, impatience, insecurity, etc. related to the subject of love and relationships to bubble up to the surface.

And all that is asked of you is to FEEL the emotions.

Nothing more. Nothing less.

No judgement.
No analysing.
No need to understand them.
Or find out where they come from.

Just FEEL them.

Once they are felt, they will dissipate.

This dissipating is the release and that is what you can call healing.

However. 💥

That moment that life is mirroring you your unconscious thoughts, beliefs, perspectives and behaviours,

is also the very moment so many of you go "Uuughhh! Why is this coming up again? I thought I had healed this already!"

To which my answer is "It IS healed already! You have already made the commitment to change. All of this is just re-emerging so that you can release it and say goodbye to it once and for all!" 🤯🤯🤯

The reason we are ought to believe that we are never done healing is because over the course of our live our hearts get bruised and cut and ripped out again and again and thus needs tending and healing again and again.

And there is a point to be made for that.

But what if you are able to establish a foundation of deep love and connection in your heart, that allows you to remember that you are whole even when you feel broken?

Would it not make sense then that as this foundation of deep love and connection grows stronger and you are reminded of your Wholeness more and more, there would come a time where you are able to walk through life as this Wholeness?

In my 6-month one-on-one oracular mentorship program I support visionary globally orientated leaders whose highest purpose is to help humanity evolve into higher states of consciousness, to rise into the Legendary Leader they are born to become without further delay.

Experiencing this Wholeness is that higher state of consciousness. 

When you experience a moment of this Wholeness,
you experience a moment of being 'done'.

Done with the healing.

Because you are Whole and One with the Divine.

In order for you to rise into your highest purpose and guide others to Wholeness, your need to experience this Wholeness within yourself first.

But most of you never get to this point, because you continue to analyse your emotions instead of FEELING and RELEASING them.

You continue to go over the same healing cycle again and again, thinking that you need to understand where these emotions come from.

You don't.
Not all the time anyway.

In times like these, where so many people are consumed by fear or anger and unable to look further than the day of tomorrow,

we need you to STOP analysing already and start walking the path to a brighter future for humanity with clarity, confidence and certainty. 

You do not have to have a big following to do this.
Or decades of experience.

You just need to have the drive to make a difference.
The willingness to commit to a higher purpose.
And the courage to FEEL it all out.

Now, if you are emotionally aware and you know how to hold space for yourself during an emotional healing process,

then you know that these processes are a profound way of propelling you forward in your personal expansion.

But even if you are so aware you can hold that space for yourself it is still a hard way to go about it.

Having someone there to hold the space for you is
So. Much. Easier. 
And So. Much. Faster. 
And So. Much. More. Enjoyable.

Are you ready to start walking and rise into the Legendary Leader you are born to be?

Then message me to see if 2023 is your year and if my 6-month one-on-one oracular mentorship program is a good fit for you.

​With love,
🦋N.