There was a time I thought I wanted a perfect life. At the time, perfection for me was a nice little cottage by the sea, a loving partner in my life and a roaring global writing career.
I still dream about those things. And I know that one day they will indeed be in my life as I am taking steps towards them every single day.
But I have learned one very important thing as I was striving to create this dream life I had in mind: that I, by striving for that perfect dream life, was, at the same time, emphasising the not-so-dreamy situation of my current life.
And you cannot manifest your dream life if you continue to resist where you are now.
It is impossible to become a vibrational match with your dream house, dream relationship, dream work, dream body, dream health if you resist your house, your relationship, your work, your body, your health and the state all of this is in right now.
Your resistance of it and your eagerness for change, will continue to push it away.
Instead, I have learned how to master my emotions and shift my energetic vibration from resistance to bliss.
I feel blessed with my house, my relationship, my work, my body, my health and the state all of that is in right now (even though some would still say they are far from perfect!) AND I dream of more.
I am at peace with my life as it is now AND I am eager for what else is in store for me.
Master this and life becomes a chain of wonder and beauty.
Where in your life do you hold resistance and how could change your perspective about it so that you feel blessed instead?
Life is not something we figure out in our heads. We figure it out by living it. By experiencing it.
We figure it out by taking a risk. By taking a leap of good faith. By doing something we have never done before so we can stretch our horizon and experience for ourselves what happens.
Our freedom lies in doing the exact thing we resist most. For it is by doing it that the resistance loses it's grip on us.
It is the release of this resistance that will set you free.
I see it happening all around me: with lockdowns being lifted and businesses opening up again, women frantically start working their titties off to make up for the "time lost". As if, after not being able to swim for the first half year of 2020, they have now finally been set free and given the go.
So they dive.
And start swimming like crazy.
All to catch up with .... with what?
Well, my gorgeous ladies, that is a losing game.
Because as long as you perceive time and money as something outside of yourself to catch up with, you will NEVER get it done. You will always be trying to live up to something that is greater than you and with that set yourself up for endless loops of failure and "not-enoughness", preventing you from receiving the blessings your soul has in store for you.
I have learned this the hard way.
For years I have gone around in circles of hard work and exhaustion, thinking it was the only way to make ends meet. And I'll be honest with you, even I had a bit of a wobble the past months where former stories would play themselves out it my mind and all the doubt and uncertainty would pop right back up again.
But if there is one message that keeps coming back over and over again, then it is the message of being a living leading example for all of you to show you that there are other ways.
More gentle ways.
More peaceful ways.
More joyous and blissful ways.
Instead of working hard in an attempt to catch up with time and money and "get it done", surrender to them. Surrender to both time and money, and allow them to guide you and show you where you need to be in order to receive them.
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Up until recently I was unaware of something called white privilege. The moment I heard about it it made sense to me though. In my heart I knew there was truth in it.
But with that new-found awarness came discomfort. How was I going to approach this? I felt the need to talk to people of colour in person about this, but I was also afraid that even that question might be a racist question and a supersensitive one to ask. So I went blank. I had no idea why, but for weeks I went blank. As if I just couldn't access that part of my awareness anymore.
Until I a few days ago a beautiful piece of music cracked my heart open again and I could finally feel the courage to make a move. My hands were shaking as I typed the message, but I spoke from the heart and shared my willingness to educate myself around this with a beautiful woman of colour whom I hold very dear.
She replied with an equal open heart that she does not feel called to educate me about it, but that her white partner suggested the book "White Fragility" by Robin Diangelo. Subtitle: Why it is so hard for white people to talk about racism.
Says it all really, doesn't it?
I haven't read it yet, but I figured that if I am feeling this way many of you might be too. So let's start reading together, shall we? It's never too late to educate ourselves.