Life is not something we figure out in our heads. We figure it out by living it. By experiencing it.
We figure it out by taking a risk. By taking a leap of good faith. By doing something we have never done before so we can stretch our horizon and experience for ourselves what happens.
Our freedom lies in doing the exact thing we resist most. For it is by doing it that the resistance loses it's grip on us.
It is the release of this resistance that will set you free.